i sometimes forgive too easily to people who hurt me but at the end of the day i ask myself this question after being upset : if i were to die tomm, would i have wished to heal that wound? if they were to die tomm , would i have wished to heal that wound? my answer will be yes, and that is why when friends or ex's go separate ways, i believe no matter what, you can always have a cordial relationship. unless they are horribly bad for you in which case, you love them from afar.. yea?  i think so.